Traditional Indian baby shower|Godh bharai|Seemantham|Dohale Jevan

Traditional Indian Baby Shower

Traditional Indian Baby shower

The Indian Baby shower function is a very common practice all over India with Maharashtians having Dohale Jevan, up north the Godh Bharai and Saadh to the east. Names maybe differ but the ideology of the Traditional Indian Baby shower the same – to celebrate & honour the mom-to-be and bless her for a safe pregnancy and healthy delivery.

When to have a baby shower

It was around my 6th month of pregnancy and we went to Mumbai just for the function. Here’s a post on traveling during pregnancy that you might find useful. Typically Indian women have their baby shower on the 7th month of pregnancy. You can also wait till the 9th month if you have a low risk pregnancy.

Traditional Indian Baby shower

It as a very very tiring day, almost as elaborate as our wedding, in fact even more! I actually changed 4 Sarees (traditional Indian outfits). It was exhausting but loved all the blessings for our little family from friends and family. This is a half-day affair and is usually done for the first child, but many families do it for subsequent pregnancies too.
Let me briefly take you through the ceremonies & the significance of traditional tambram baby shower (Traditional Indian Baby Shower or Dohale Jevan):

Part 1: Valaikappu 

The festivities of the Traditional Indian Baby shower start with Valaikappu (Valayal – Bangle + Kaapu – a safety thread),  a traditional bangle ceremony in which elder mothers bless the mom-to-be. The bangles are to be worn till the end of pregnancy and I think even after. They say the baby starts hearing around this time and will associate the bangles sounds with its mother.
Traditional Indian Baby shower
This is essentially a ladies-only function and the pregnant mother wears a black Saree, probably the only function where black is allowed to be worn. Black is not seen as very auspicious except in the Valaikappu, where it is worn by the mom-to-be to ward off evil eye.

Saree #1 – A black Saree

Traditional Indian Baby shower
Hands full of bangles

Part 2: Seemantham

I then changed into an old saree given and here’s when we take the ‘baby shower’ very literally. The husband showers me with cold water, I did my ice bucket challenge after all! It was cold AF and totally unexpected but this is said to be for simulation of the mother and baby (please do not try this at home).

Saree #2 – an old Saree

Traditional Indian Baby shower
“Baby shower”

Moving on. An elaborate homam (sacred fire & chanting of mantras) is performed by the husband for the welfare of his pregnant wife and their unborn baby. The mantras in a Traditional Indian Baby shower are said to spread positive vibes which are also passed on to the foetal brain through the mother.

Traditional Indian Baby shower
The mom-to-be sits close to her husband while he chants the mantras and performs the homam

Saree #3 – My wedding saree – the tambram 9 yards saree – Madisaar

Traditional Indian Baby shower
The homam performed by the father for the well being of his wife and unborn kid, praying for a healthy pregnancy and safe delivery

After this, there is a haldi ceremony performed by the sister of the husband and the elder women in the gathering. Haldi or turmeric is an integral part of an Indian household and is a multi-tasking super food! It’s medicinal properties are very well known, it is said to ward off evil, purifies the body and is also a symbol of blessing. This is also a very common function in every Traditional Indian Baby shower.
Traditional Indian Baby shower
With this the religious part of the function was done. There were some social games to relax the situation and have some fun! We had one fun activity of guessing the gender of the baby. Three little kids guessed that we would have a boy and voila – boy he is 😊

Traditional Indian Baby shower
Guessing the baby’s gender

Saree #4 – for lunch and rest of the day

Indian maternity announcement ideas. Traditional Indian Baby shower

The women also danced Garba, since the baby can hear now the chatter & claps, if mommy-to-be isn’t embarrassed enough 😜!
The Indian baby shower traditions might be different in language or might look different but all have the same intention. Pregnant mommies must constantly surround yourself with positive people more than anything else, and that is half of life’s battle won right there. This is even more true when you are nurturing another human inside you. Do read my post on lifestyle tips during a pregnancy.

Indian Baby shower gift ideas

Check out fantastic baby shower gifts at Kula Village.

Hope you enjoyed this post on South Indian Traditional Baby Shower. How does your family celebrate pregnancies? What are the similarities and differences from the ones mentioned above in the Traditional Indian Baby shower? Share with me in your comments below!

Do check out this playlist for songs that you can play in your Godh Bharai or Hindi baby shower songs (Traditional Indian Baby shower).

Much love,
Mama Dee

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9 thoughts on “Traditional Indian baby shower|Godh bharai|Seemantham|Dohale Jevan

  1. Mamma Dee is looking so cute and glowing n all the pics. As you said, we have Dohale Jevan ( Dohale meaning cravings and Jevan meaning meal) in Maharashtra but it is not this elaborated as yours.

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